tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27821555.post2458561815002152973..comments2023-05-30T05:53:47.380-07:00Comments on The Martini Chronicles: How to ThriveKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15932137393421707475noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27821555.post-8499892779888881942013-07-18T08:21:19.176-07:002013-07-18T08:21:19.176-07:00Aye, but try finding a guy who isn't broken or...Aye, but try finding a guy who isn't broken or needs fixing (definition of "fixing" open to interpretation). I find a lot of people don't know what they want, while others are so sure of what they want they get frustrated by those that don't know what they want. (like right now, I WANT a coffee, but I'll get frustrated by the first person that asks "are you sure?").<br /><br />Your dogs seem to act like my cats. I have a very fluffy laptop.<br /><br />At least with Vibrators, you know exactly where your money is going. Batteries! I think men have the wrong idea about them. They think "Vibrators, getting women off who can't get a boyfriend!". Actually more like "Getting women off because men aren't capable of really satisfying them!" <br /><br />Damn I need my coffee, I seem to be having a "you go girl" type of morning. Hmmmm yup, a bout of sarcasm coming on, I better find someone who deserves it, like a televangelist from Texas or something.<br />Irishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27821555.post-89969256170852701852013-07-18T08:09:35.762-07:002013-07-18T08:09:35.762-07:00Absolutely. I don't expect anyone to make me h...Absolutely. I don't expect anyone to make me happy, I'm not broken and I don't need fixing. What I would like is someone who appreciates my quirks and understands me enough to give me space when I need it. Unlike my dogs who have zero boundaries and insist on laying on my lap when the laptop is already there. <br /><br />Vibrators doing yardwork? Now you're on to something.....Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15932137393421707475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27821555.post-19390307219436120692013-07-18T07:46:07.689-07:002013-07-18T07:46:07.689-07:00The only person that can truly make you happy is y...The only person that can truly make you happy is you. After all, you're the one who has to live with yourself ALL the time. Having a partner can "add" to the happiness and good times. It can also take away from that happiness and add "bad" times at times (and result in the overuse of the word "times"). Anyone can be a "part" of your life, but no one should "complete" you. You should already be a complete person. I remember being in love with someone who wasn't ready for a relationship, they had said "I'm broken, pieces of my life are everywhere, and it's not fair of me to ask you to be there to pick them up". I replied to her "You're right, I shouldn't have to be there to put your life back together, it's you who needs to know how to do that, you need to be able to rebuild your life, you need to be able to make yourself a whole person again...... but that doesn't mean I don't want to be there to help you". To really sound like a cliche " You can't give someone wings, and expect them not to fly". I guess that's true, it's a risk. But maybe if you had wings also, you could join them. Either way, I'm glad not everyone has wings........ I have enough problems cleaning my car as it is...<br /><br />Also remember, Vibrators don't eat your food, spend your money, crash your car, invite their friends over, argue with you, sulk, insist on watching tv programs you hate, or chase after your friends. The day they assemble Ikea Furniture and cut the grass, mankind is doomed!Irishnoreply@blogger.com